You’ve heard about the importance of storytelling in sales and marketing, but how do you transform customer stories into sales copy?
Every person who visits your website or interacts with your brand brings their unique background, goals, and challenges.
Despite these differences, some common customer stories and shared motivations drive them to seek out your products or services.
Identifying and understanding these shared narratives is essential for creating story-driven marketing strategies that resonate deeply and inspire action.
As a marketer who sees the value in earning the trust and loyalty of your customers (see: Belong to Your Customer), it’s in your best interest to uncover these customer behavior insights and common themes.
Once you identify them, you can create marketing that attracts and engages customers, increasing the likelihood they will choose you over your competitors.
In this post, you’ll discover:
Let’s dive in.
Marketing isn’t solely about promoting your product or service. It’s about connecting and showing your audience you understand their needs and can help them solve their problem.
When you’re aware of the story your customers tell themselves, you can create marketing copy that speaks directly to their internal dialogue and the belief system that shapes their decisions.
For example, people shopping for beauty products might tell themselves, “I’m overwhelmed. I want to look polished and fresh without too much hassle.”
A business owner invests in software and thinks, “This will help me save time and focus on growing my company.”
When you understand these narratives, you align your messaging with your audience’s desires and make them feel seen and understood.
Customers see their story in your copy, trust you more, and choose your brand.
But how do you do it?
We’ll tackle that in the next section.
So, how do you determine what’s driving your customers to make purchasing decisions?
Here are three proven strategies:
There’s no substitute for talking directly with your customers. The best way to uncover their fears, motivations and aspirations is by conducting one-on-one interviews.
Open-ended questions like the sampling below can reveal the emotional and practical factors influencing their decisions:
Real conversations provide a unique glimpse into the customer’s thought process, helping you understand the story they told themselves before purchasing.
Offer incentives to customers such as exclusive discounts as a thank you if they agree to participate!
Customer reviews are a goldmine for understanding how people perceive your product. Mine for Voice of Customer on your platforms, competitors’ platforms, or third-party sites.
When reading, look at your customers’ language and note recurring themes.
A simple search on Reddit for a popular beauty brand resulted in pages of reviews as detailed as this one:
“I haven’t tried a wide variety of their products, but I agree with the others that their lip products are the standouts. The shades & tones are phenomenal. I adore the lipsticks & I enjoy the lip oils, the only con to the lip oils is I wouldn’t keep them flat or keep them in a bag; they can leak, I keep mine standing up on my vanity, though I haven’t had a problem taking them around with me for the day as long as I return them back to standing. Long-term laying down seems to be the leak issue for me.”
As a copywriter, this feedback is a dream. It provides descriptive, emotional and powerful adjectives that would make for great copy in product descriptions, headlines, email marketing subject lines, etc.
Customers often share their unfiltered thoughts about products, brands, and industries on forums such as Reddit.
Look for anecdotes, complaints, or praise that reveal how customers feel about your offerings.
This approach helps you connect with the wider and more informal story your customers relate to, ensuring your marketing aligns with their expectations and desires.
Now that you have the insights, it’s time to implement them.
Once you’ve gathered insights about your customers, the next step is to use this information to craft compelling sales messaging and engaging content.
Here’s how:
As mentioned above, your customers’ words and phrases when describing their challenges or goals will make the best copy. By marrying their voice with the key benefits of your product, you’ll capture their attention and inspire their confidence that your product is worth their money.
Here’s an example: In place of, “Our makeup line includes long-lasting lipsticks,” say, “Our lipsticks keep you looking flawless all day, so you can focus on what matters most.”
2. Focus on Their Story, Not Your Product
The most effective marketing copy emphasizes how the customer will benefit, not the product features. For example, instead of saying, “Our software has advanced analytics capabilities,” say, “Our software helps you make data-driven decisions to grow your business.”
Apple does this better than anyone.

Frame your product as something that helps customers achieve their goals or solves their problems. Show them how your offering fits seamlessly into the story they’re already telling themselves.
3. Educate Your Buyers to Feel Safe to Buy
Great content doesn’t just sell—it educates and empowers. Create resources that help your audience make informed decisions, like the ones below:
To wrap things up, let’s revisit the most important takeaways.
Understanding the story your customers tell themselves is one of the most powerful tools in your marketing toolkit. You can uncover the narratives that drive their decisions by engaging directly with your customer, conducting thorough research, and remaining open and curious to feedback.
From there, it’s all about crafting messaging that reflects those customer stories, helping them see themselves in your offer. This approach attracts customers and builds trust, loyalty, and long-term sales success when done effectively.
So, what story are your customers telling themselves? And how can you make your brand a part of it? The answers to these questions are the foundation of genuinely impactful marketing.
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